The Maturity Gap Diagnostic™
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
When I feel offended, I examine my insecurity before assuming spiritual discernment.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
I can receive correction without becoming defensive, withdrawing, or spiraling into shame.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
When emotionally triggered, I pause before responding.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
I can identify the deeper emotion beneath anger (fear, shame, rejection, disappointment).
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
I apologize without excuses or “but you…” statements.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
I address relational tension directly instead of avoiding or ghosting.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
I do not equate disagreement with rejection.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
I can tolerate discomfort (silence, unmet expectations, correction) without escalating internally.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
My sleep and daily rhythm support emotional stability.
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Rate from 0–10 where 0 = Not True and 10 = Very True
I recover from emotional activation within a reasonable time.
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When someone challenges my perspective publicly, my first internal response is:
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A. Calm curiosity
B. Defensive justification
C. Embarrassment or shutdown
D. Quiet resentment or replaying it later
After conflict, I most often:
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A. Reflect on my role first
B. Replay what the other person did wrong
C. Withdraw and go quiet
D. Seek validation from someone else
When someone sets a boundary with me, I:
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A. Respect it
B. Feel rejected
C. Try to negotiate it
D. Distance myself
When I feel misunderstood, I tend to:
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A. Clarify calmly
B. Over-explain
C. Shut down
D. Become internally frustrated
When I am stressed, I most often:
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A. Regulate intentionally
B. Overwork
C. Overthink
D. Numb (scrolling, food, avoidance)
Maturity Integration Score
